It's cold and snow is actually on the ground in this no snow town...

Its crazy, I was just thinking about how society tells us there is something wrong if we choose to be alone. Actually society tells us that the choice to be alone is non-existent. In a world full of romantic comedies and little girls dreaming of story book weddings we have been conditioned to think that this is what is supposed to happen, and if it doesnt well then there is something terribly wrong with us.

Listen I want the dream just as much as everyone else, the house a few kids, organic snack foods, but why is this a key to happiness? I really want a dodge challenger but It wouldnt really effect me to the core….

people tell me “your standards are too high” and “you have to “put myself out there” but the thing is, I would much rather spend the rest of my life alone then spend it sifting through a bargin bin of girls who I will have to settle for.

I need someone who will tell me I am wrong, I need someone to laugh at my jokes, I need someone to think inappropriate humor is funny. Someone who will tell me I am wrong, someone who will have a heart more after god than she will ever have for me, I need someone who understands how creativity truly works and has felt the irresistible urge to create, I need someone who will argue with me over music and which artist is better: pink floyd or jimmy hendrix…

I need someone that knows what its like to live your life for other people, I need someone with respect for herself, I need someone who likes the smell of cigars, and most importantly I need someone who has a raw burnning unadulterated passion inside of her.

Pretty tall order eh?

I know I have high standards, and I know the chances of meeting someone that meet those standard are extremely low. In all the places I have lived with all the people I meet, I have come across one woman who would be anywhere near those standards.

one girl every 20 years…. awesome odds right!?

but the point is, I would much rather bask in the freedom of being alone then to have a partner who is a ball and chain. That’s why I love this video because being alone is just as beautiful as being with someone…